tOm@kO's life ~*_*~

has not been using my external keyboard for quite sometime... suddenly found that it was not functioning.
tried to change new battery but it was not working and asked IT to check for me but still not working...
went home tried on my own laptop still not working..
tried to change to another new battery...
yes... my external keyboard is alive again...
hahaha...
maybe it's all about the correct combination...
maybe you think what is in order is actually the trigger point that create all the problem.

Was discussing with a friend on his relationship status and it came to our discussion of after impact of his x and it still having some side effects on his current relationship even he was with a new gf now.

Being used to brain washed that a most important thing that you need to take care is your gf's feelings and you need to stay far far away from gals while on the other hand she can be with any guys that she like...

Herm... i see no fareness in this relationship. But... i should say.. good that my friend decided to let go and go separate ways with the x.

The story now is both are having better relationship with their new bf and gf respectively.

It's amazing how our path cross and how we jus slip and missed...

So...
前度syndrome will fade eventually...
It's a matter on how long it will take saje...

Have not been writing my blog lately
reason being?
>lazy?
>busy?
>nothing to write

just wanted to start my grumble again...
Just can't understand why people can be wasteful when it comes to food.

Just grumble and no true solution
and yes it's still grumble...

看到身邊的朋友墜入情網的樣子
幸福的感覺不言而喻

睡不著
滿腦子都是對方的樣子
甚至幻想與對方有長遠的未來

幸福是需要在對的時間遇上對的她
有點替朋友開心

這無心插柳的動作
竟然多年以後有這樣的結果

以前不懂事的我會亂撒種子
可是種子都因為某種原因沒有開花

現在種子好像蓄積好了好多能量準備發芽成長
這永遠都不會來得遲的
好的人是值得等待的
好的東西是值得守候的

時機對的時候就可以水到渠成
靜靜期待水到渠成的那一天 ^_^

17.03.2013

It feels good when you see a smiling face when you exit the custom and the best part you remember about Malaysia is a very pretty , cute and cun Custom officer. Chinese gal, which is very rare.
She gives you a bright smile and it really brighten up your day :)

06.03.2013

We brought instant camera film for our Taiwan trip and knowing that the film should not be exposed under x-ray and you would tell the Custom officer that this should not be exposed to X ray which was well written outside the box of the film.

But the best part is the officer still insist that you need to open the film >.<
and they never see such film before and they insist you to open the box....

Malaysia Custom big shots can you give your Custom officers some basic education on this and please don't act like people who come from the jungle and don't know what is a instant camera film.

I guess it's time  for me to come back with  some good post  and to  practice my writing skills as well  as some destressed session ^_^
This is just  the beginning and hope  it continues :D

Had a discussion with a friend on the issue of the recent case decision of the case of rape of minor and decision was consensual sex with a minor is a OK thing to do?

my friend has been quite confused with the case law decision.

However, I guess this does not have anything to do with the long expected GE soon. We are looking forward for the GE anyway.

Be it the result is +ve for the BN or -ve for BN it doesn't matter.

But i think we need to have awareness whether what is the actual situation.
and also understand what is Statutory rape, Maybe the news is just too big for us to catch and the situation is being discussed among people.But it is just a topic to discuss over lunch / dinner or rather a point that we need to ponder what is happening.

What is the rational behind, why the judgement has been decided as such.

My friend and I was discussing about her parents letting her to go out during night time with friends for "yam cha" session.

Sometimes I feel that maybe yes we already grow up, but the worries from our parents does not go away that easily. I think is not that they do not trust us enough to give us freedom. It's just that the safety in Malaysia is so bad that it alarmed the concerned of parents, even though their kids is old enough to have their own KEY.

I guess nobody would want themselves to turn up to be one of the news in the papers one day. As such I guess we need to sacrifice a bit by not going out for "yam cha" session during night time.

However, on the other hand, it still voice down to the negotiation skills that whether we are able to convince our parents to allow us to go out at night. My hubby gave me a very good point / action plan that what should be done that I did not do well previously.

1. Tell them where you exactly going and what is the expected time that you are coming back. Try not to be too late if your parents is waiting at the living hall for you to be back
2. Let them know the phone number of friends that are "yam cha"-ing with you and try your best to bring them to your house so that your parents would know who are those people that you are going out with.
3. Let your parents get used to you going out late by going according to their conditions.

One of the motivation to enjoy the our holiday this month is salary is received half a month in advance compared to previous months due to the festive season.

But on the other hand the disadvantage is you might tend to spend excessively with all the extra cashflow in the bank account.

Well for me, i will spend my money on books and cds
yeah here come the book fest in town during the festive season and public holiday as well as school holidays :)

So happened it was movie night last night and we loved to watched movie Tropicana City Mall. But it's only disadvantage is often we struggle to think what to eat at when we wanted to have a movie there.

but worry no more Secret Recipe came to the rescue when it wanted to go beyond veggie.

food was quite attractive. Will do a review in the next post.
but was glad that there is a good place to settle down for food in TCM :)

Tanya's Song - Friends


All the sadness in the air
How did we get to this?
Why did we end this way?
All the things we used to share
You said put them all away
Close my eyes they're still there yeah
Still trying to understand
Trying the best I can
To start over again oh

Chorus:
If who I am brings you not joy but tears babe
I cannot bear to see you fighting with this pain
So I wish you all the best
If we can't be lovers
Maybe we can still be friends

Though we never really knew
Why did our worlds collide
There were no reasons why
When we're meant to say goodbye
You were never really mine
You were just a state of mind
Still trying to understand
Trying the best I can
To start over again oh

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liked this song very much. No idea why.
but it's suitable for loves who doesn't managed to make it to the next journey?

The theme of this olympic 2012 @ London is Inspire a generation,
i wonder whether this olympic does it managed to inspire the young generation to start practice and prepared  to be the next national player who is as good as Dato Lee Chong Wei or Pandelela Rinong?

but before reaching the stage to be as good as Dato Lee Chong Wei or Pandelela Rinong
they need to go trough a lot of practice
a lot of pain
a lot of defeat

learn for failure
but I wonder whether instead of being inspired
Maybe they will be defeated by the hardship that they need to go through before become sucessful.

it would be very sad case if you got to knows the news of your parents / kid through a third party / outsider or even facebook.

what is happening now?
the world is changing...

what can we do to restore it back to its original stage?

What would be the main criteria for a employee to be shortlisted.
Good greds, good academic results, good co-co activities?

With a lot of people getting good greds nowadays,
i guess the best way that you can out perform others
you should potrait yourself as a person who is willing to stay and fight for the company for a number of years

if you potrait that you might not be possible to stay for long
possibility is you stand a lower chance to get hired.

we decided to have a BBQ party at our condo again...

so it's time to get yourself BBQ or BBQ something which sound so fund :P