tOm@kO's life ~*_*~

My friend and I was discussing about her parents letting her to go out during night time with friends for "yam cha" session.

Sometimes I feel that maybe yes we already grow up, but the worries from our parents does not go away that easily. I think is not that they do not trust us enough to give us freedom. It's just that the safety in Malaysia is so bad that it alarmed the concerned of parents, even though their kids is old enough to have their own KEY.

I guess nobody would want themselves to turn up to be one of the news in the papers one day. As such I guess we need to sacrifice a bit by not going out for "yam cha" session during night time.

However, on the other hand, it still voice down to the negotiation skills that whether we are able to convince our parents to allow us to go out at night. My hubby gave me a very good point / action plan that what should be done that I did not do well previously.

1. Tell them where you exactly going and what is the expected time that you are coming back. Try not to be too late if your parents is waiting at the living hall for you to be back
2. Let them know the phone number of friends that are "yam cha"-ing with you and try your best to bring them to your house so that your parents would know who are those people that you are going out with.
3. Let your parents get used to you going out late by going according to their conditions.

Don't know how long
it's been a while since
you told me your favorite story
it's been all of my mind
driving me crazy
another reason
that you're crying now

I see the tears in your eyes
they tell me you don't believe
that I can be your prince charming
maybe you can't understand
but when you said you love me
my life was changed
and I wish you could see

I'm willing to
be the one
any angel that you love
with open arms
I will always be there
you must believe
that you and me will end up happily
in our own fairytale story

你哭着对我说
童话里都是骗人的
我不可能是你的王子
也许你不会懂从你说爱我以后
我的天空星星都亮了
我愿变成童话里你爱的那个天使
张开双手变成翅膀守护你
你要相信相信我们会像童话故事里
幸福和快乐是结局

I will be
be the one
any angel that you love
with open arms
I will always be there
you must believe
that you and me will end up living happily
in our own fairytale story

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他不是不喜欢的一首歌

每次听到都会联想到在婚礼上听见
新郎key唱不上去的歌

每次听到都会联想到
新郎在婚后所作所为的
和歌词里头唱的
好讽刺

“你要相信
相信我们会像童话故事里
幸福和快乐是结局
一起写我们的结局”
公主曾经相信王子说我们会像童话故事里有幸福快乐的日子
可是在公主以为幸福快乐来临的时候
却是她噩梦的开始

“我会变成童话里
你爱的那个天使
张开双手
变成翅膀守护你”
王子在结婚后
改变了
嫌弃公主因为公主怀孕了
不方便带她出门?（烂借口）

“你哭着对我说
童话里都是骗人的
我不可能是你的王子
也许你不会懂
从你说爱我以后
我的天空星星都亮了”
小王子出世了
王子却对公主说他爱上其他王子了
公主也只能
哭着说
童话里都是骗人的
你不是我的王子

结局是王子和公主并没有过着幸福和快乐的日子
童话的背后也并没有幸福快乐的日子

有说求人不如求己，可是当自己已经呼吸困难的时候，过份的自我也只会让自己窒息。
脾气是给有能力的人的！志气在现实面前根本就一文不值！

他说他看到你和你的他一起买新屋子的东西。
听了好想要上前去问
呃... 好久不见你儿子咯他好吗？
你老婆好吗？
来买东西给你和老婆的屋子吗？

很不喜欢这样
感觉很讨厌

谢谢你把自己的快乐建筑在她的痛苦上。
让她看清楚你。
因为在你心里别人的女儿不是人，只有你才是。
别人的女儿没有父母生的，你就有父母生的。
(或许你早已把自己当成神啦!)

one day my operation director told me that i know that you are very good at doing online searching..
i was stunt..
how the hell do they know?

am i that good?
well i guess i'm not that good after all.

there is a si fu that have superb searching skills online
but i guess he had decided to retired.
cos he might have found the love of his life :)

somebody said he already woke up from a nightmare. everything is over. he is having his totally new life for him and god will bless him

goh thinks that 如果婚姻与家庭是噩梦的话，就别学人家去承担。。
当你认为你摆脱所谓的梦魇同时。。所造的孽。。
不是轻易能弥补的。。。

as well as
勇敢承担。。。才是强者所为。。。

somebody comment again
不是自己的東西郤要占為己有...
而好人只有被欺負的份...唉...
吃虧真的是占便宜嗎?

sometimes i wonder is it the people who pretend that he is the weak side is actually the bad guys.

there is never a right or wrong answer in things in our life.
just like you might be good guy for someone and at the same time bad guy for others...
it's just which side you are looking from

God is giving us HIS signs and Signal??!!

children asking: 本当に (hotoni) 2012 is coming?

well a DJ just said 2012 or no 2012, doesn't matter at all. Life can end right now. That's a fact.

True in a way but sad i guess

went to this shop
saw that the wall is being decorated very creatively
damn damn cool
gave me an idea to decorate during some event coming soon :)

life is not always as easy as 12345
but sometimes coincidence you will see 12345 appear in your life
guiding us through?

TC: ur brot is playing FB whole day on Thursday
and kacao everybody including uncle fred that hec say the word fuck again
please tell your parents to bar him from playing FB

YTY: o

TC: >.<
is he not allowed to play FB at nite?

YTY: ya

TC: haha... i sms ur mom last nite

YTY: ==

TC: well let him be upset wit me
he is over FBing dy

YTY: good

TC:too young to be out of control
good for wat?

TC: good u stop him la

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the kid is over FBing...
have to let people imposed control on him
show faces when he is not allowed to FB

too young to show faces rite?
too young to all those things where adult always do

these are the ang pow i collected this year
quite a number

seems like all this fun are going to end soon
did not care about the quantum of the money inside the ang pow packet

but i'm definitely gonna miss all this fun
can i do not miss all this fun next year??

question question question

Chinese New Year just ended at a blink of the eye
booo...

have to pack my Chinese New Year mood
keep it high up and take it out next year
but don't really know how much will it left next year

back to hardworking me
back to dedicated me

back to the good performance me
can I do it?
I'm looking forward for it

其实自己并没有很想去搞小学同学会呃
感觉比较像例行公事一般
如果没有同学提议要办那我就当作不了了之啦

有些同学比较珍惜
现在的朋友吧
有些可能根本就不愿意再和小学同学再见面啦！

人生就是这样的
坐在一列长长的巴士上
有人上车有人下车
有人错过
有人擦身而过

c'est la vie

很多告诉我他们想来的同学
可是自己心里面总是认为他们有一点点
让我觉得口是心非的感觉

c'est la vie

In fact, I did not really want to arrange for the primary friends gathering
Feels rather a routine work for me now
If there are non who proposed for the gathering I will just pretend that I've forgot about it

Sometimes if feels like some of the classmates treasure their current friends more
Some even would feel very reluctant and awkward to meet up with their primary school friend again!

I guess this is life
life you are sitting on a long bus
People get on and off the bus
Some misses the bus
Some just went passing through the bus

c'est la vie

Many that tell me they want to come
But they just gave me the feeling of duplicity
or in simple terms they don't really mean what they are talking about

c'est la vie

me: OMG... dunno wat that DL did...
it made his wife feel helpless leh
>.<
tv: maybe she found out that
he doesn't love her anymore ?

then heard the story...
i also feel speechless

well
you are already a grown up
you have to be responsible for the promises that you had made

Sunday went to shop for chinese new year stuff
then went to shopping at ikea

when we wanna checked out we saw the little kid of a Japenses couple tried to do diving out from inside the trolley =_=
lucky a lady who passby managed to help to save the baby =_=

lesson learned:-
1) do not ever let your kid to attempt for dry diving =_=
2) always keep your kid near the pushing area ... if you are pushing the trolley.
3) you will have good return by doing good deeds :)

tried to take train back from kl sentral back to my house
waited for half an hour for the train
(waste of time)

then sit inside the coach for ladies only
a lot of pink sign inside.

but the air con for the coach is spoilt
not well maintained >.<

and...
i saw some ladies in disguise as man
i guess this is why they sit inside the ladies coach?

or maybe they are just typical Malaysian
i.e. they just do not care
and literraly they do not know how to read the sign
and money spent for the sign are just for decoration purpose so that the coach looks very nice in pink :)

this morning went to have breakfast at this place
with this guy :P

not many table available.
table which are going to be available were "chop" by others
table which are already available being "rampas" by others

this is purely life rite?
it happens

you need to be at the right place
at the right time choosing the right person
making the right decision >.<

just some thought to end my breakfast this morning

when you take of your mask, do you still need to face the masked self?卸下面具后的你 还需要面对戴着面具的自己吗？

it's good that before you made any decision you go for advice from somebody who is more senior first.

maybe they will have better example/experience for what you are facing?

gambade to solve the problem ;)

dealing with a working mom
she have to take leave to take care of her son

that makes me think
in a family
there should be either one which have the flexibility to able to take care of the son whenever they got anything

lesson learned:
1) either mommy or daddy have to be responsible to take care of your own kids
2) you have to take care of your kids cos you "created" them
3) kids take note that your parents actually took a lot of effort to raise you up