tOm@kO's life ~*_*~

Caroline say why there is no photo of me... of course first of all i wanna take photo of the nice nice view in Melaka and think that I take the best picture with my camera... :P
很自大和臭屁吧!
but the following is the photo of myself, joo and mom taken my all of us.

taken with my feet up.. and tilt a bit to the side cos wanna post so that i dun look so fat... hahaha...


the sun is too bright cant open my eyes...


trying to be cute gua?


my mom and myself ;) see the Eye at the background?


me and joo but how come the EYE suddenly become so small?


Now you see me here!!!


Now I'm here with my mom ;)


my mom posting on the canon


Leng Zai Joo's photo 1 :)


Leng Zai Joo's Photo taken my me :)


Leng Zai Joo with his future mother-in-law (dunno why he smile so happy :P)


Me and Joo for half day trip in Melaka :P

my fren has tis idea about getting married on V Day...
and i think it would b great if u proposed on V Day and get married on the same day too...
so u get a great celebration package...
V day... Proposal day... Marriage day...
and you would not forget your wedding anniversary cos every1 (i.e. news paper, TV, Radio...) would keep reminding you.. V day coming V Day coming...

but i wonder would the GF say yes... hahaha...

Anyway...
today is our 6 years and 10 months anniversary.
so... is going to be the 7th year..
and it's a test for us before we move forward to another level..

Many ask me when i'm getting married...
i would say probably not this year... Maybe next and Maybe the year after that.
I have nothing in mind yet...
But will let my friends know in advance ;)

just bought fish latest album ．．．静茹　＆　情歌　fall in love & songs
ah.. this month broke again... (yet i'm still considering or wondering whether i should buy the special edition of fish's album for myself)(as shown below)



GOD when can I have my credit card statement go back to 3 digit figures? It had been exceeding the limit for this few months d....
(maybe I should just buy everything with cash????? easy to control????

this album comprises of 12 new song (2 not too new since they were air on radio station and in pre-release CDs)

别再为他流泪
没有如果
用力抱着
PK
情歌
天灯
不敢当
爱情之所以为爱情
属于
找个人
风笛手
儿歌

if you ask me how was the CD
i would think...
it's another of my favourite fish CD.
especially where u first listen there are already a few songs on your mind.
among those i would recommend 情歌, 别再为他流泪, 爱情之所以为爱情 & 没有如果
there are a lot of taiwan tv series theme song and closing theme song in this album
so i'm chasing one of the taiwan tv series...

作词:陈没 作曲:伍冠谚 编曲。陈建骐

时光是琥珀 泪一滴滴被反锁
情书再不朽 也磨成沙漏
青春的上游 白云飞走苍狗与海鸥
闪过的念头 潺潺的溜走

命运好幽默 让爱的人都沉默
一整个宇宙 换一颗红豆
回忆如困兽 寂寞太久而渐渐温柔
放开了拳头 反而更自由

慢动作 缱绻胶卷 重播默片 定格一瞬间
我们在 告别的演唱会 说好不再见

你写给我 我的第一首歌
你和我 十指紧扣 默写前奏
可是那然后呢
还好我有 我这一首情歌
轻轻的 轻轻哼着 哭着笑着
我的 天长地久

命运好幽默 让爱的人都沉默
一整个宇宙 换一颗红豆
回忆如困兽 寂寞太久而渐渐温柔
放开了拳头 反而更自由

长镜头 越拉越远 越来越远 事隔好几年
我们在 怀念的演唱会 礼貌的吻别

你写给我 我的第一首歌
你和我 十指紧扣 默写前奏
可是那然后呢
还好我有 我这一首情歌
轻轻的 轻轻哼着 哭着笑着
我的 天长地久

陪我唱歌 清唱你的情歌

i like this song...
a bit simple..
meaningful
sounds 细水长流
something pretty simple
something nothing too difficult..

my friend blog about OT..
why people do OT while others don't need to do so?
sometimes i wonder why.. when i always OT last time.

agreed with my friend that auditor need to OT in order to meet their deadline
what about tax agent?
does tax agent reli need to OT?

i think i got the answer.
yeah we need to OT as well.

mainly due to the following reasons:-

client's call...

taking too many call from client during office hours. but we cant tell client we have no time to entertain you since we are in the service industry. and whether the time and time cost that we spend to entertain the client is chargeable or not is another big question mark.

staff inefficiency...

sometimes we work and work and work and we might consider whether we should take a break. then things start to slow down. sometimes is the fear of doing something which is new to yourself and you are not familiar with it. but if you know the thing is urgent, would you have the motivation in speeding up your work?

delayed in receiving information from client...

sometimes client know they need to furnish you with the information soonest possible in order to speed up the progress of getting the thing done. yet they take their own sweet sweet time to complete the information. and sometimes they know the things that you need is urgent, but yet they can still go on leave or go back early. i do not understand why such things would happen. when they give you the information at the eleventh hour they would expect you to finished the job with the short period of time. cos you are the expert and you are being paid for having to rush the very very last minute cos we (here refers to the client) paid for it.

motivation to speed up the work....

when there are no praise or compliment from people on the top for the hard work or good work that you have done.. you would feel demotivated and feel not to move forward anymore... and laid back take your own sweet time to complete your work... but job satisfaction will sometimes result you to move forward faster... like close relationship with client, client bonding, group bonding and etc...

so in order to avoid OT...
we need to plan in advance...
review our plan as and when we implement it
change our plan as we are approaching dead end
always have plan B and C even D and E if need be
last but not least OT with a purpose.. maybe to learn more so to increase your marketability in the future

sometimes i wonder whether the hard work that you OT would pay u good... you will know it when your company promote you and it will show in your increment adn also bonus...

having a walk at the historical city...
just like having a walk in penang..
just that Melaka seems to be more historical as compared to penang
and preservation job is much much more better..









the day is quite hot..
initially tot it was quite windy day
so we din bring our umbrella..
so we walk walk walk and walk...











finally went to dataran pahlahwan...
go inside enjoy aircond
rest...
find something to eat...






















and then continue our journey before we went to pick up my dad :P

some very nice building on the street


some very nice landscape.. on the street.


永春。reminds of the movie 叶问？


famous culture in Melaka... Baba and Nyonya..


more western style building on the street


nice wall art


chinese style wall art?
chinese style paper cutting?


hokkien association with nice little lantern decor in front of the door


somebody not happy with me let him waiting while i take the photo


stage for the final chinese new year celebration of the year chap goh meh..


jonker walk aka jalan hang tuah?


another look at jonker walk...

on the way to Melaka

in the early morning..

the weather seems to be great

the sun just woke up to start the trip together with us

如果我說 愛我沒有如果
錯過就過 你是不是會難過
若如果拿來當藉口
那爱是不是有一點弱

如果我說 愛我沒有如果
真的愛我 就放手一搏
還想什麼 還怕什麼
快牽起我的手

有个人說
世界上最遙遠的距離不是生與死
而是我就站在你面前 你卻不知道我愛你

我常說
如果人類連愛一個人都被自己綁住
那世界末日已來到
不需要等到地球毀滅掉的那天

如果我說 愛我沒有如果
錯過就過 你是不是會難過
若如果拿來當藉口
那是不是有一點弱

如果我說 愛我沒有如果
真的愛我 就放手一搏
還想什麼 還怕什麼
快牽起我的手

如果 如果 如果 如果 如果
最後變成路過 我也不能接受
錯過 錯過 錯過 錯過 錯過
我比你更難過 不會一錯再錯

我常說
如果人類連愛一個人都被自己綁住
那世界末日已來到
不需要等到地球毀滅掉的那天

別怕太快樂(別怕太快樂)
別怕失去我~~

如果我說 愛我沒有如果
錯過就過 你是不是會難過
若如果拿來當藉口
那是不是有一點弱
如果我說 愛我沒有如果
真的愛我 就放手一搏
還想什麼 還怕什麼
快牽起我的手

快牽起我的手

如果我說 愛我沒有如果
錯過就過 你是不是會難過
若如果拿來當藉口
那是不是有一點弱

如果我說 愛我沒有如果
真的愛我 就放手一搏
還想什麼 還怕什麼
快牽起我的手

若如果拿來當藉口
那是不是有一點弱
沒有如果
還想什麼 還怕什麼
快牽起我的手

若如果拿來當藉口
那是不是有一點弱
如果我說 愛我沒有如果
真的愛我 就放手一搏
還想什麼 還怕什麼
快牽起我的手
如果我說 愛我沒有如果

～～～～～
ｔｈｉｓ　ｓｏｎｇ　ｉｓ　ｔｈｅ　ｓｏｎｇ　ｗｈｉｃｈ　ｉ　ｌｉｋｅ　ｉｔ　ｖｅｒｙ　ｍｕｃｈ　ｒｅｃｅｎｔｌｙ
ｔｏｇｅｔｈｅｒ　ｗｉｔｈ　ｔｈｅ　ｔａｉｗａｎ　ｔｖ　ｓｅｒｉｅｓ
ａｎｄ　ｔｈｅ　ｍｏｒａｌ　ｉｓ．．
ｉｆ　ｙｏｕ　ｒｅｌｉ　ｌｉｋｅ　ｓｏｍｅｂｏｄｙ
ｊｕｓｔ　ｌｅｔ　ｔｈｅｍ　ｋｎｏｗ
ｒｅｇａｒｄｌｅｓｓ　ｗｈｅｔｈｅｒ　ｔｈｅ　ｐｅｒｓｏｎ　ｗｉｌｌ　ｒｅｐａｙ　ｙｏｕ　ｗｉｔｈ　ｅｑｕａｌ　ｌｏｖｅ

i used to work at the office situated at Level 12 in my office.

Bcos of the promotion i have to move to Level 15 and my new place.

Yesterday when i was going down the lift from Level 16, my habitual reflex was to press level 12 to go back to my work station.
and I did so… and when i realised it was too late…

so.. i have to go all the way down to level 1 and up to level 15 again…

blur blur me and kasian me waisting time “游 lift 河”

too blur me gotta improved la…

so... to avoid this.. from 15 to 16 or either way...
i should take the stairs and some exercise
and lift to 12 floor

picture means a thousand words, to comment on it later :P

with the new responsibility starting from this year...
i feel tired...
battery is low...
do not know how long i would last there.

should try to make it my best
but it is difficult

there is no way of turning back
no a bed a roses waiting in front of me

keep on telling myself
you are not a person who easily gives up
you have your determination
tat's why they choose you.

i tried very hard
i have a lot of expectation on my shoulder
i'm worried about people's expectation towards me :P

the economy is bad...
how i know?

because judging from the type of gift that people are giving nowadays i think the economy is bad...

actually i'm wondering whether how people judge and value when it come to gift giving during chinese new year.
my mom bought a lot of branded stuff (where she consider it is good quality gift)
but those gift where she received...
my only comment is 不敢恭维 (no comment)

can food where some of it was "kemek"?
some even have the price tag on it?

but at the end...
regardless what other gave you..
it fall back to the spirit of chinese new year
a annual get together event,
to know your long lost contact relative
to know whether they are married whether they are getting married and stuff

uncle is sick..
so he gotta go for operation
and his family members have to come back from the OZ country

so...
comes the kiosk regarding chinese new year..
cannot celebrate chinese new year at grandpa house
cos the so called "owner" of the house is coming back
and she dun like our family seems to be too marry together??
I wonder wat kind of thinking is that

when the "owner" come back...
every1 have to be afraid of her...
what kind of thinking is that...

i just want my chinese new year be a new begining for the year
a good year to begin with...
i just want my family to have close relationship
i just want grandma not to worry too much about uncle's health situation
i just hope somebody dun screw up the chinese new year this year.

i dun understand why my car (even i dun reli drive it) i have to borrow it to others when the "owner" is back and i have to beg my car back while the car is belongs to me...
i wonder...
what's the rasional behind.
while the "owner" is so "ba bai" we cant do this and that at her house
so chinese new year is not able to be celebrated at grandpa's house d la...

has not been blogging too frequent lately.
got a lot of photo regarding chinese new year
spend a lot for chinese new year
forseeing going to spend more for chinese new year :)
hoping i can spare and squeeze some more time for the chinese new year :)