tOm@kO's life ~*_*~

(借你一辈子 借你我剩下的日子 答应过你的那些事
请你让我去证实 用你左手的无名指)

借你我肩膀 借你温暖
借你美好的时光
借你胸膛 借你疯狂
借你放肆的飞翔

想不想永远留在这些 不用管永远到底有多长
我知道生命太短 所以不要犹豫了 如果你和我一样
时间就像陀螺般旋转 差点把我们的爱打乱
我不要再这样 我不要再流浪 我真的这么想
这一次我看见了生命的答案 就藏在你身上
让我完整的一半 最甜蜜的负担

借你一辈子 借你我剩下的日子
答应过你的那些事 让我去证实 对天使发誓
借我一辈子 借我你所有的日子
写下两个人的故事 用你左手的无名指

时间像陀螺般旋转 差点把我们的爱打乱
我不要再这样 真的不要再流浪 我真的这么想
这一次我看见了生命的答案
就藏在你身上让我完整的一半 最甜蜜的负担

借你一辈子 借你我剩下的日子
答应过你的那些事 让我去证实 对天使发誓
借我一辈子 借我你所有的日子
写下两个人的故事 用你左手的无名指

我们都曾经在爱里迷失方向
以为独自生活就不会受伤不受伤 nononono

我曾经把你错过 我不要把你错过
我认定你一定会是我 (我最美的结果)
你和我 （给我一辈子 给你我剩下的日子）
爱你的那些事 请你让我去证实 （答应过你的那些事 让我对天使发誓）
给我一辈子 我给你一辈子 （给我一辈子 给你我所有的日子）
写下我们所有的故事 （写下两个人的故事）
woo baby woo baby...

～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～
just bought gary's latest album supermarket yesterday.
so the CD is playing in my car and i was sleeping while mr goh was driving
and when i work up.
i heard this song
借你一辈子 借你我剩下的日子
答应过你的那些事 让我去证实 对天使发誓
借我一辈子 借我你所有的日子
写下两个人的故事 用你左手的无名指

and i like it a lot!!!
song by Master Gary himself and Lyrics by 管启源 (a very talented lyrics writer of Malaysia)
like the lyrics too much... love it..
and so sweet...
and if somebody would sing it to me...
i would say...
YES :P

last nite was lingering around in the shopping center before our show starts at 9.40pm
then there was this wedding booth.
so the first thing tell will tell you is
"come have a long, just have a look, never mind"
(yeah there are pulling the string to hook the fish）

"we are having promotion now RM500 discount"
(yeah string is longer... to ensure the fish bite the bate）

"come i'll let you see our sample first then only we discuss on the package."
(yeah if you like our sample.. we can fish you can chop chop you)

then look look look... nothing too attractive..
then see see see nothing very special.
then come to the package discussion

"our package normal price is RM 3580 now we promotion give your RM 3280"
(eh... i tot you are giving RM 500 discount??? WTF.. u try and con me ar?)
"we got a lot of designer dress and you can choose without paying extra regardless it's new or not"
(ya.. ya.. ya.. i don't care yet.. i'm not in d mood to get married.. not in da mood to take wedding photo）

then mr goh told them we will consider
"i'll add this for you... add that for you... add 10 more pose... add this.. add that.."
(sorry not very very attractive)

then mr goh told them he have yet to proposed
"never mind la you make the booking of this then your proposal will be easy"
mr goh went a step further to say proposal ring also i haven get
so the person went speechless
(haha)

so my conclusion is...
i need to fork up 30% up front for something which i'm not certain.. that's why i wont go for it.

i'm jus look-seeing.. and you have ask me to seat down...
so i seat down to listen to what you say lo... you cant force me to enter to something which i'm not into geh ma?

i'm not in the mood of getting married
cos pocket got no money... and most important thing..
i'm not ready ;)

这篇文章是要写给昨天自侮的顾客 （还在想要不要翻成英文）

老人家孟子有云： 人必自侮，而後人侮之
意思就是但凡一個人，必定是自己先有輕慢自己的行為，然後別人才會來侮辱
《孟子》 夫人必自侮,然后人侮之;家必自毁,而后人毁之;国必自伐,而后人伐之

简单的说就是人必先有自取侮辱的行为，然后别人才侮辱他。

昨天发生了让我觉得心疼的事情
为了顾客好的事情
站在她的角度来看变成好像在害她的事情了

因为她是我们的顾客的会计师（可是我质疑她是不是合格的会计，她让我感觉是那种街边或野鸡大学毕业的会计师），而对她有几分尊敬。
她打电话来宣泄她的不满，可是我已经低声下气要讨好她。
还是谈不妥
然后我的高级经理打电话要说服她，她竟然谈到一半一言不合，盖我经理的电话。
而后，因为抱持着以顾客为先的态度，
我们请我们的老板直接打电话和她洽谈
可是她一接到我老板的电话就直接大喊什么又是你们啊？
可是能够当上老板就不是简单的人
老板说服她和我们一起安排见面然后商讨公司税务的问题

可是在我们的心里也暗地里 让我们感觉到她给我们的印象是个
自高自大，不懂装懂，种族主义，不懂尊重自己和别人的人
给她小小的尊敬，她就想爬上我们的头上，可是我们也不是很好欺负的啊
走着瞧吧！

i decided to translate what i write.
this is dedicated to the good client who have self humiliated herself yesterday

the old people "zhuang zi" said : A person must humiliate themselves, than only others will humiliate them
meaning a person must have done something that make others respect that's why they got humiliated.

yesterday something happened which make me feel very heartbroken.
we are trying to do something good for our client
but at her view point we are making her in a difficult position.

since she is the accountant of our client(however i doubt whether she is qualified and not graduate from the "chap ba lang" university) ，and we respect her as our client.
she called and screen at us on her dissatisfaction.
i've lowered my voice and try to please her but we cant come to a conclusion.
then my Senior Manager called her to comfort her, but half way to the telephone conversation she slam the phone.
however as a professional firm, the client are our priority
so we asked we our director to call her
but once she heard that it's is us calling her and she shouted YOU AGAIN??
of course to be our boss. he is not a simple person to handle.
my director has managed to convince her to arrange meet up and then the tax issue of the company.

however from this incident, i just feel that her impression for me is
arrogant,don't know but pretend to know, racist, do not know how to respect herself and others!
give her little respect, but she wanna show much colour to us.
but we are not simple too.
we wait and see how :P

sometimes wonder whether after 50 ++ year malaysia have obtained their has the thinking of people here had changed??

yesterday i got a call from client which had some very bad comment.

comment 1:

I know you all Chinese very good at making money. Your responsibility is to help me to save money is not making me to pay more!!!

comment 2:

I think I can handle the IXX better than handle you all.

comment 3:

you are making my life difficult. I know my responsibility. I'm the person who is in charge of the company's finance. I'm answerable to whatever decision i'm making.

comment 4:

please do not put everything that i've tell you in the letter. who knows what will be happening in the future? you might not be around, i might not be around when the IXX come for audit / investigation

conclusion from the comment of the person

RACIST, STUBBORN, RUDE, PAIN IN THE ASS, BITCHY, DON'T KNOW PRETENDING SHE KNOWS A LOT

BUT i would like to say thank you to her..
cos she give me a good lesson.
good client..
'appreciate' her too much

this most hit topic in town is Fallen...
Transformer : Revenge of the Fallen

but today is not Transformer is another Fallen
Fallen of a legend -- MJ we have lost you
but my first thinking was it's a relief for him.
and he will get better life at the other world
no more paparazzi
no more -ve news on him

sharing with you some of MJ's quote from my friend

“In a world filled with hate, we must still dare to hope. In a world filled with anger, we must still dare to comfort. In a world filled with despair, we must still dare to dream. In a world filled with distrust, we must still dare to believe.”

now the hope for MJ to perform again has gone. he will not come to Malaysia again.
but his songs. All of his songs will always and forever live in our lives.

sharing with you one of the song of my favourite singer - Legend singer who only stay in the world for 50 years:-

"Heal The World"

There's A Place In
Your Heart
And I Know That It Is Love
And This Place Could
Be Much
Brighter Than Tomorrow
And If You Really Try
You'll Find There's No Need
To Cry
In This Place You'll Feel
There's No Hurt Or Sorrow

There Are Ways
To Get There
If You Care Enough
For The Living
Make A Little Space
Make A Better Place...

Heal The World
Make It A Better Place
For You And For Me
And The Entire Human Race
There Are People Dying
If You Care Enough
For The Living
Make A Better Place
For You And For Me

If You Want To Know Why
There's A Love That
Cannot Lie
Love Is Strong
It Only Cares For
Joyful Giving
If We Try
We Shall See
In This Bliss
We Cannot Feel
Fear Or Dread
We Stop Existing And
Start Living

Then It Feels That Always
Love's Enough For
Us Growing
So Make A Better World
Make A Better World...

Heal The World
Make It A Better Place
For You And For Me
And The Entire Human Race
There Are People Dying
If You Care Enough
For The Living
Make A Better Place
For You And For Me

And The Dream We Were
Conceived In
Will Reveal A Joyful Face
And The World We
Once Believed In
Will Shine Again In Grace
Then Why Do We Keep
Strangling Life
Wound This Earth
Crucify Its Soul
Though It's Plain To See
This World Is Heavenly
Be God's Glow

We Could Fly So High
Let Our Spirits Never Die
In My Heart
I Feel You Are All
My Brothers
Create A World With
No Fear
Together We'll Cry
Happy Tears
See The Nations Turn
Their Swords
Into Plowshares

We Could Really Get There
If You Cared Enough
For The Living
Make A Little Space
To Make A Better Place...

Heal The World
Make It A Better Place
For You And For Me
And The Entire Human Race
There Are People Dying
If You Care Enough
For The Living
Make A Better Place
For You And For Me

Heal The World
Make It A Better Place
For You And For Me
And The Entire Human Race
There Are People Dying
If You Care Enough
For The Living
Make A Better Place
For You And For Me

Heal The World
Make It A Better Place
For You And For Me
And The Entire Human Race
There Are People Dying
If You Care Enough
For The Living
Make A Better Place
For You And For Me

There Are People Dying
If You Care Enough
For The Living
Make A Better Place
For You And For Me

There Are People Dying
If You Care Enough
For The Living
Make A Better Place
For You And For Me

You And For Me
You And For Me
You And For Me
You And For Me
You And For Me
You And For Me
You And For Me
You And For Me
You And For Me
You And For Me
You And For Me

what is the hit topic of the week?
H1N1?
Port Klang Free Zone (PKFZ)?

nah... it's
TRANSFORMER!!!

yeah.. it's on since Monday and i'm fortunate enough to watch it on Wednesday!
somebody told me the story line might be a bit confusing. (so you will go to cinema to watch it again. DL also)

but i guessed the movie is quite ok..
just that you need to hold bits and pieces of the puzzle and link it all together at the end of the story.

and you can read my friend's post on the characters which appeared in the movie.

both thumbs up for the movie and it's definitely a part two movie which is comparable or better than part 1.
so are you expecting Transformer 3?

p/s I think among all the Decepticons the one who is disguised in human form is the most zun of all ;) i guessed you would most likely agreed with me

p/s2 I think this is definately a movie that you should not missed this year. and worth to watch again movie... ;)

p/s3 this movie is PG13 so children under 13 must be accompanied by parent for viewing purposes.

yesterday nite came home and checked whether there are any letters for me
and there is one from A..A... and i thought it was a letter to chase for money...
but it's not...
it's an apology letter from A..A for issuing my cert under wrong stationery.
and they say "we are now reviewing our procedures to ensure this does not happen again"

Déjà vu

something similar happened in Malaysia, apologies from the party that had made the error and to rectify the error within 10 days but what about moving forward?

so what's the moral of the story?
difference between UK way of doing things and Malaysia way of doing thing...
leave it to you to think ok...
not ok to comment to much cos i'm still leaving in the country i'm commenting.

told my dad last nite i'm gonna watch movie tonite
then he started to nag me

the security around the area is not that good!
bad guys come with parang...
they see you just straight parang you!!!
don't go out and come back so late...
don't just because you wanna save money then you
purposely go to watch movie ar..
bla bla bla

ok daddy i'll take good care of myself.
make sure that i'll look carefully before i step out from the car.

sometimes i wonder why money is not enough
you earn more then you spend more?

now all i hope is salary increment and own self cost cutting.

today went to office first thing in the morning what i'm doing?
i spend almost one hour to prepare my time report at ESS

it make me worried...
ai spend so much time for what
not productive
but what to do??

you need to work this out since you need to impressed your boss..

last friday i watched 17 again...
i’m suppose to write something before somebody does...
and i’m doing a summary about the movie as follows:-

1) Adult movie with the kids and youngster’s idol as the main cast (to attract more yougster + kids and adults have to bring them along cos it’s rater PG13)
2) Enjoying one since you can have some good laugh with it.
3) Something not very good for kids to see.. that’s why PG is required
4) yes.. you only ML if you have true love with the person
5) gals need to appreciate themselves in order for others to appreciate you
6) if you have the chance to re-run your life again… you would eventually discover that the choice that you have made at that point of time is the best choice that you can have at that point of time

the decease just get worst
with more people who got infected coming back from US, Melbourne, Philippines..
i wonder when will Malaysia be clear of A H1N1

and now this school have to close down for one week cos the decease is spreading.
but i would think it is the responsibility of one to quarantine themselves so that it would not spread so drastically and eventually went out of control.

have you realised those people who are coming back all are taking Air Azis X?
something to ponder and consider rite?
i pray...
pray for the decease to go away soon
hope that Malaysia would be declared free of A H1N1 by end of the month!

can you buy filling and satisfying lunch for RM10 for 2?
with the current economic situation?
yes? no?

today we just had an filling yet satisfying lunch
char koey tiao mee (big RM 4.50)
poh piah + carrot cake + curry puff (one each)(RM 3.30)
nice barli water X 2 (RM 2.00)
we got a 20sen change

good food
satisfying and nice service
i wouldn't mind to go again for another and another trip ;)

during our recent visit to penang.. my dad bring us to makan-makan at Lily's kitchen
which serves a lot of home cooked food and not served with a lot of mock meat but the most important thing is there is a lot of nice penang available food
so we order some of the simple dish:-


potato leaves very nicely cooked


steamed Tofu with abalone mushroom nice and juicy


Penang style food - perut ikan?? chun-man


Penang style food - otak-otak.

not expensive and filling dinner ;)

this afternoon went for a sushi buffet lunch.
cos it's my dad b'day 2moro and it's 'papa' day 2moro.

the Buffet is not as good as what i expected but
i do like like mango roll which is wrap in the popiah skin.

this reminds me about the very nice vegetarian all you can eat buffet in taiwan
sashimi
various sushi
some raw vege
fried 'shui jiao'
yummy...
makes me think a lot when i wanna go taiwan... :P

din tried any good vegetarian sushi in Malaysia..
but looking forward to one.. which mr driver going to take me there
it's somewhere in Puchong...

when you are in the school
we have learned to line up
for 6 +　5 + 2 (if you go for two years kindergarden)

but somehow i realised there are people who do not know how to line up
especially in the toilet
i know you might be urgent
but please respect people in front of you
the lining up in the toilet should be first come first serve as well rite?

i do not understand this kind of mentality
so.. how to we improve ourselves to be comparable with others?

saw a lot of people getting married this year.
a lot of red bomb here and there
if you didn't received red bomb also you can see people getting married with their photo on FB, Friendster and stuff

but if you ask how about myself..
earlier this year i would very definitely tell you that next year
but now i'm not too confirmed.
maybe it's not next year.
maybe two or three more years down the road.

i'm not too confirm and i'm not too sure about this issue.

last nite we went for movie
brought my cousin out and bring them back after 12

i think never bring them back so late?
haha...

kids should stay at home and went to bed sharp sharp 10pm?
even they went to bed at 10pm
but after you say good nite to them would you know what are they doing?
won't they be talking on their HP, smsing?
you would not know.

so.. sometimes have to let them know it's ok to go home late.
but you need to let your parents know where you are and who you are with.

Do you FB?
Have you FB?

if you are FBing...
what is your favourite activity?

besides participating and creating various type of quiz to test whether you understand the your friend.
the most popular game is My Farm
go steal your friend's vege and fruit
at the same time also help them to kill the weed and worm
so...

just simplified...
it's a way to help you to kill time ;)

i was anticipating this week's competition.
anticipating this complete presentation.
i really really like the way they presented the song.

even i'm not too familar with this song but i do think the way that they presented the song have made the show complete and there is only one word to describe
棒

remember 陶子 shout out "GOOD JOB" immediately after they complete the show... cool rite ;)
after all the hardwork and it is being presented in perfection ;)