tOm@kO's life ~*_*~

Sometimes it is very easy to tell someone you hate them but it is hard when it comes to the time where you need to tell the person you love him/her and you do really really care about him/her.
When you love a person.. sometimes you tend to forget you need to care about there feeling and sometimes you tend to forget what you need to do to love them more...
When you hate a person.. the hate is carried inside ur heart and it is bring along with you all the time and without ur notice it grew... and it grew and it grew and it starts to rotes.. and it will come to a time that you can't bare with it anymore...
it is really important in ourlife that we choose to forgive those who had hurt us and to thank them for giving us such an unforgettable experience and love them as much as those you love..
by then.. your life will be happier...

A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game. The
teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic bag
containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name of a
person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that a child
will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number of people
he/she hates.

So when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with the
name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some 3 while
some up to 5 potatoes.

The teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes
in the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for 1 week.
Days after days passed by, and the children started to complain
due to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides,
those having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1
week, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended.

The teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes
with you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and
started complaining of the trouble that they had to go through
having to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go.

Then the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game. The
teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry your
hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred will
contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever you
go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just 1
week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred
in your heart for your lifetime???"

Throw away any hatred for anyone from your heart so that you will
not carry sins for a lifetime. Forgiving others is the best attitude
to take!
Love others even if you don't like them...

sometimes I'm scared to do a lot of things. cos i do not know what will happen in the future.. i'm scared of the consequences that i need to take. what if there is something wrong that will happened? what if things went wrong? what if things did not turn up the way it is suppose to be?
by the time i finished figuring out all the what if, the opportunity to do things that i want to do and i'm scared of the consequences would be gone...
and i would be there trying to figure out if just that i could have this and i could have that...
sometimes we really think too much before we need to take up any opportunity and we end up letting the opportunity to slip pass our hand...
it is very easy talk and talk about something you wanna do... but in fact...it is hard to determine whether we had did the right thing and we would not regret for what we had done...
if it is to be. it is up to me :P

a photo taken during a visit to klia. it was about 2 and half years back.it was really an unforgettable memory for me.now i'm quiet busy with my studies and stuff.therefore i don't think that i would have such an opportunity to go there again soon.but i would really really like to go there again in the near future. 

Sometimes we feel that life is boring.. sometimes we see it as dull.. sometimes we even think it is meaningless..
but nevertheless life to me is exicting.. challenging.. and full of new things that are out there and it is for us to discover it..
Life to me is a journey of roller coaster... sometimes it is very fast.. sometimes it's slow.. sometimes it is at a normal speed...sometimes it is high and sometimes it is low... sometimes it does not move at all because it is out of service.. and we have to find a way to fixed it... Simply because if we do not do anything at all it will not move anymore..
Life is what we choose and where we want to be and where we are going to be as well.. it is not faith that determine where we are now and future.. it is up to us to decide where we wanna be now and future.