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we always tried to use our past to teach our children now to face the future.
don't you feel that it is quiet weird in the sense that what you teach them is not suitable to use now moreover in the future???
our parents tend to tell us their grandmother story say that during my time if you do this and that would happened.... and we would say in our heart that "oh... stop that long grandmother story...
you have been telling me story ten times already i can tell what you gonna say next even without thinking!"
when a child come to this world he/she is just like a picture waiting to be paint. and kids tend to learn from the people around them the way they talk, think, and they started to have feelings and emotion.
and the way you threat them would have an impact in their future, how they threat people around them and how they threat their kids.
as kids i used to tell myself that i would do this and do that to my child.. when i grow up... i would treat them better... i would not want them to grow up the way i do...
and time pass by i found that what happened in the pass do really have a great impact in my life and how i treat my cousin sister and brother.. i suddenly found that i acted like my mom and my dad.... wow... what's happening isn't it i just said that i would not want to treat my child the way my parents did?
erm... it sure had lighten something inside me....
teach them the way you want your parents to treat you and your grandchildrens would have the greatest parents in the world that they could ever have.
don't you feel that it is quiet weird in the sense that what you teach them is not suitable to use now moreover in the future???
our parents tend to tell us their grandmother story say that during my time if you do this and that would happened.... and we would say in our heart that "oh... stop that long grandmother story...
you have been telling me story ten times already i can tell what you gonna say next even without thinking!"
when a child come to this world he/she is just like a picture waiting to be paint. and kids tend to learn from the people around them the way they talk, think, and they started to have feelings and emotion.
and the way you threat them would have an impact in their future, how they threat people around them and how they threat their kids.
as kids i used to tell myself that i would do this and do that to my child.. when i grow up... i would treat them better... i would not want them to grow up the way i do...
and time pass by i found that what happened in the pass do really have a great impact in my life and how i treat my cousin sister and brother.. i suddenly found that i acted like my mom and my dad.... wow... what's happening isn't it i just said that i would not want to treat my child the way my parents did?
erm... it sure had lighten something inside me....
teach them the way you want your parents to treat you and your grandchildrens would have the greatest parents in the world that they could ever have.
