人必自侮而後人侮之

这篇文章是要写给昨天自侮的顾客 (还在想要不要翻成英文)

老人家孟子有云: 人必自侮,而後人侮之
意思就是但凡一個人,必定是自己先有輕慢自己的行為,然後別人才會來侮辱
《孟子》 夫人必自侮,然后人侮之;家必自毁,而后人毁之;国必自伐,而后人伐之

简单的说就是人必先有自取侮辱的行为,然后别人才侮辱他。

昨天发生了让我觉得心疼的事情
为了顾客好的事情
站在她的角度来看变成好像在害她的事情了

因为她是我们的顾客的会计师(可是我质疑她是不是合格的会计,她让我感觉是那种街边或野鸡大学毕业的会计师),而对她有几分尊敬。
她打电话来宣泄她的不满,可是我已经低声下气要讨好她。
还是谈不妥
然后我的高级经理打电话要说服她,她竟然谈到一半一言不合,盖我经理的电话。
而后,因为抱持着以顾客为先的态度,
我们请我们的老板直接打电话和她洽谈
可是她一接到我老板的电话就直接大喊什么又是你们啊?
可是能够当上老板就不是简单的人
老板说服她和我们一起安排见面然后商讨公司税务的问题

可是在我们的心里也暗地里 让我们感觉到她给我们的印象是个
自高自大,不懂装懂,种族主义,不懂尊重自己和别人的人
给她小小的尊敬,她就想爬上我们的头上,可是我们也不是很好欺负的啊
走着瞧吧!

i decided to translate what i write.
this is dedicated to the good client who have self humiliated herself yesterday

the old people "zhuang zi" said : A person must humiliate themselves, than only others will humiliate them
meaning a person must have done something that make others respect that's why they got humiliated.

yesterday something happened which make me feel very heartbroken.
we are trying to do something good for our client
but at her view point we are making her in a difficult position.

since she is the accountant of our client(however i doubt whether she is qualified and not graduate from the "chap ba lang" university) ,and we respect her as our client.
she called and screen at us on her dissatisfaction.
i've lowered my voice and try to please her but we cant come to a conclusion.
then my Senior Manager called her to comfort her, but half way to the telephone conversation she slam the phone.
however as a professional firm, the client are our priority
so we asked we our director to call her
but once she heard that it's is us calling her and she shouted YOU AGAIN??
of course to be our boss. he is not a simple person to handle.
my director has managed to convince her to arrange meet up and then the tax issue of the company.

however from this incident, i just feel that her impression for me is
arrogant,don't know but pretend to know, racist, do not know how to respect herself and others!
give her little respect, but she wanna show much colour to us.
but we are not simple too.
we wait and see how :P
sometimes wonder whether after 50 ++ year malaysia have obtained their has the thinking of people here had changed??

yesterday i got a call from client which had some very bad comment.

comment 1:

I know you all Chinese very good at making money. Your responsibility is to help me to save money is not making me to pay more!!!


comment 2:

I think I can handle the IXX better than handle you all.


comment 3:

you are making my life difficult. I know my responsibility. I'm the person who is in charge of the company's finance. I'm answerable to whatever decision i'm making.


comment 4:

please do not put everything that i've tell you in the letter. who knows what will be happening in the future? you might not be around, i might not be around when the IXX come for audit / investigation


conclusion from the comment of the person

RACIST, STUBBORN, RUDE, PAIN IN THE ASS, BITCHY, DON'T KNOW PRETENDING SHE KNOWS A LOT

BUT i would like to say thank you to her..
cos she give me a good lesson.
good client..
'appreciate' her too much

Fallen of a Legend

this most hit topic in town is Fallen...
Transformer : Revenge of the Fallen

but today is not Transformer is another Fallen
Fallen of a legend -- MJ we have lost you
but my first thinking was it's a relief for him.
and he will get better life at the other world
no more paparazzi
no more -ve news on him

sharing with you some of MJ's quote from my friend

“In a world filled with hate, we must still dare to hope. In a world filled with anger, we must still dare to comfort. In a world filled with despair, we must still dare to dream. In a world filled with distrust, we must still dare to believe.”

now the hope for MJ to perform again has gone. he will not come to Malaysia again.
but his songs. All of his songs will always and forever live in our lives.

sharing with you one of the song of my favourite singer - Legend singer who only stay in the world for 50 years:-

"Heal The World"

There's A Place In
Your Heart
And I Know That It Is Love
And This Place Could
Be Much
Brighter Than Tomorrow
And If You Really Try
You'll Find There's No Need
To Cry
In This Place You'll Feel
There's No Hurt Or Sorrow

There Are Ways
To Get There
If You Care Enough
For The Living
Make A Little Space
Make A Better Place...

Heal The World
Make It A Better Place
For You And For Me
And The Entire Human Race
There Are People Dying
If You Care Enough
For The Living
Make A Better Place
For You And For Me

If You Want To Know Why
There's A Love That
Cannot Lie
Love Is Strong
It Only Cares For
Joyful Giving
If We Try
We Shall See
In This Bliss
We Cannot Feel
Fear Or Dread
We Stop Existing And
Start Living

Then It Feels That Always
Love's Enough For
Us Growing
So Make A Better World
Make A Better World...

Heal The World
Make It A Better Place
For You And For Me
And The Entire Human Race
There Are People Dying
If You Care Enough
For The Living
Make A Better Place
For You And For Me

And The Dream We Were
Conceived In
Will Reveal A Joyful Face
And The World We
Once Believed In
Will Shine Again In Grace
Then Why Do We Keep
Strangling Life
Wound This Earth
Crucify Its Soul
Though It's Plain To See
This World Is Heavenly
Be God's Glow

We Could Fly So High
Let Our Spirits Never Die
In My Heart
I Feel You Are All
My Brothers
Create A World With
No Fear
Together We'll Cry
Happy Tears
See The Nations Turn
Their Swords
Into Plowshares

We Could Really Get There
If You Cared Enough
For The Living
Make A Little Space
To Make A Better Place...

Heal The World
Make It A Better Place
For You And For Me
And The Entire Human Race
There Are People Dying
If You Care Enough
For The Living
Make A Better Place
For You And For Me

Heal The World
Make It A Better Place
For You And For Me
And The Entire Human Race
There Are People Dying
If You Care Enough
For The Living
Make A Better Place
For You And For Me

Heal The World
Make It A Better Place
For You And For Me
And The Entire Human Race
There Are People Dying
If You Care Enough
For The Living
Make A Better Place
For You And For Me

There Are People Dying
If You Care Enough
For The Living
Make A Better Place
For You And For Me

There Are People Dying
If You Care Enough
For The Living
Make A Better Place
For You And For Me

You And For Me
You And For Me
You And For Me
You And For Me
You And For Me
You And For Me
You And For Me
You And For Me
You And For Me
You And For Me
You And For Me
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