乡愿

乡愿,指貌似忠厚、实与恶俗同流合污的人。

乡愿这个词含义丰富,孔子所谓乡愿大概是指伪君子,指那些看似忠厚实际没有一点道德原则,只知道媚俗趋时的人。孟子所言大约是说言行不一,当面背后各一套的四方讨好,八面玲珑的人就是乡愿。这种人随波逐流,趋炎媚俗,更多的是指道德败坏的小人。

孔子判断一个人的德行“不以众人的好恶为依据,应以善恶为标准”,这个当然是不错的,大是大非的原则问题是万不可妥协的。乡愿所指的伪君子成分定然是众人所唾弃的,所以俗语有伪君子比真小人更可怕,可见人们对这种乡愿的普遍厌恶.

i think this is a wording that we should know the meaning
it's interesting to know new voca everyday :)

劉若英 我不想念



詞 阿信(五月天) 陳沒 曲 鴉片丹

口白:我帶了一封信來旅行,一封12歲的我,寫給長大後的自己的一封信

某個城 某條街 某一條小巷
某一個晚上 某閣樓 微微燈光
某個人 默默關上 某心房 某扇窗
跟沒有人 說晚安
口白:晚安

夜 從前從來沒這麼長
床 荒涼的就像沒有邊疆
失眠 是枕頭之上無盡的流浪
天 永遠不亮

我不想念 不想念 他模樣
我不想念 他肩膀 輕擁著我肩膀
我不想念 他吻著我臉龐
把永遠說成一顆糖

某空港 某車站 某個下一站
某一扇車窗 某風景 喚醒惆悵
某南方 搖搖晃晃 某海洋 某艘船
誰沒妄想 有天堂

當 人活成了一棵仙人掌
掌 心的淚卻還是滾燙
每當 撫摸那些天真致命傷
恨 不能健忘

我不想念 不想念 他模樣
我不想念 他肩膀 輕擁著我肩膀
我不想念 他吻著我臉龐
把永遠說成一顆糖

我不想念 不想念 那時光
那些快樂 和悲傷 卻總在我身旁
我只願長夜將盡天快亮
讓想念的歌不再唱

我只願長夜將盡天快亮
讓想念的歌不再唱
讓想念的歌不再傷
讓想念的歌不要再唱

口白:給長大以後的我~現在的妳是否已經在為自己的夢想打拼~ 是否已經成為世界一流的演奏家~
這些都是我的猜測而已當妳看這封信的時候~想必已經是個大人了吧!
真好~ 我一直響往當一個大人,妳可以告訴我當大人的感覺是什麼?好玩嗎?快樂嗎?幸福嗎?
如果當一個大人真的是那麼有趣的話~ 我還真想快點長大呢~
因為大人可以決定自己想做的事~
十二歲的我還不知道自己未來真正想做的事是什麼,我每天只是拼命的練琴,就是希望未來能夠成為一個鋼琴家~
這個夢想會實現嗎?希望長大後的妳,不要笑我喔!
對了,妳現在是不是已經有一個疼妳的人了,他是不是像爺爺疼奶奶一樣~疼妳呢?
我希望不管發生什麼事,都不要忘記現在的勇敢,一定要當一個世界上最幸福最快樂的人
Form十二歲的我
我答應妳~下次我一定帶著心疼我的人一起來旅行~
請相信我,我會很幸福的
things started to change
boss's plan started to roll on
boss say.. i try to pull you out as well
but i have doubt

taking on for a much relaxed life?
or take a not so easy
taxing life?

i prefer to second
cos when you are young
you need to learn as much as possible
regardless what will happen in the future

i'm looking forward for challenge
looking forward for more of everything i can touch
hate to just stop there

Happy Birthday!!

我想祝你生日快樂,
但是你最近幾年都好像很不開心。

不給人上飛機,
還一直晃動弄倒屋子,
不要生氣了,
我們會乖,好嗎?


4月22日,
世界地球日,
希望你快樂。

saw it from sombody's FB status
earth dun get pisss off wit us

Sick

The world is sick..
the earth is sick...
you see earthquake @ China, Australia, Afganistan
you see volcano erruption @ Iceland which caused chaos for europe airline system and resulted to many being trapped and millions/billions revenue lost.
People in Malaysia are sick too...
AH1N1 is trying to tell us ... hey i'm still around.. i'm not gone for good..
Not forgetting cute little mosquito which brings us dengue?

and last but not least
teen rape cases in school???
by your classmate? schoolmate?
school is not a safeplace afterall

thanks to???

the technology..
our selfishess..
and curiosity...

what can we do to help??
are we really sick as well??

我喜歡



我喜歡

我喜歡你的眼 看著我的眼
我喜歡你的臉 貼著我的臉

時間在改變 我不會改變
因為我很愛你

不想要你放棄
愛情這種默契得來不易

我愛你 真的是很愛你
所以想
把整個世界都給你

~~
很白的示爱歌
适合不善表达的朋友 ;)
在二十几越来越靠近三张的时候
当你朋友的儿子或女儿叫你阿姨/叔叔的时候
你会彷徨吧?

然后等着你朋友很识取的“教训”孩子
不是阿姨/叔叔是“gogo/jiejie”

再看见小朋友很困惑的眼神
很不甘愿的叫这个明明就是阿姨/叔叔的人“gogo/jiejie”?

朋友如果以上的情况对你是applicable的话
要检讨了?
要问自己为什么还是单身
是自己眼光太高
还是对的人一直都没有出现?

可能对的人一直都在我们身旁?
而我们一直忙着去寻找而忘了看看身边的人
爱你而你又爱他的人是否就在身边!

相信随着越来越多的灾难的发生
世界末日
不是空谈
所以想做的事情
就赶快去做

也希望你们在末日来临的时候
可以拉着心爱的人的手
一起度过!

怡心園素食風味小館

today dad wanna go eat dinner at a restaurant he saw on the newspaper
so we went to find it @ Kelana Jaya
but he forgot to bring the address out and we decided to went for a food hunt
just randomly search for a vegetarian restaurant.

so at the end we found this restaurant somewhere in PJ


before we went into the restaurant.
we saw the waiter are all indian.
we were like.. huh?? chinese vegetarian restaurant operated by indian??


the menu

we look at the menu found that there are a quite a number of choices and variety of food..
and there are also quite a number of indian and chinese customer in the restaurant.


the menu


very chinese decoration restaurant


the other side of the restaurant


very very chinese style decoration.
i guess the boss is chinese

so we ordered the following for our dinner :-













we also drank the following:-





very very chinese deco

glad to found this restaurant :)
and enjoyed the food there :)

Name: 怡心園素食風味小館, Sweet Garden Vegetarian Restaurant
Address:B-G-10, Jalan SS6/20, Pusat Bandar Kelana Jaya, 47301 Petaling Jaya.
Tel: 019-6688 933
下雨夜
失眠夜

凌晨时分
为什么我还在想你?
有好多想法想告诉你

失眠了
想好好整理自己的思绪
可是感觉怎么会越理越乱?

感觉好像失去方向的风帆
不知道自己靠岸的港口
在哪边?

想把自己的肩膀借给你靠
可是却怕你觉得它不够坚强
害怕你孤独的
一个人去承担
希望你能给我个答案

压抑

有些东西压抑了四个月
爆发出来的时候是痛
很痛的

可是也觉得很庆幸
它可以爆发出来

因为如果没有爆发
那应该是还蛮痛
和担心的

庆幸自己再也不必担心了
感觉轻松很多了

虽然
现在还在痛的阶段中

Do not Understand???

do not understand what is this person trying to do?
从他的行为中,可以发觉很多很多自卑的感觉
表面上很自大
可是 感觉就有很多自卑

如果真的有真材实料的
应该不会有自卑的感觉吧

可能
得不到自己努力付出的认同感
让他觉得更加自卑吧?

那我也应该
替他觉得可惜和可怜吗?

可是他
不值得!

Ending... and a New Begining

7th is coming to it's closing ceremony
8th is opening real soon

not easy to get this far
and a long way to go on as well
treasure what we have now

enjoy bah...
and wish u happy always :)

Emo

feel unbalance lately…
a little emo

the following song..
kept on playing inside my head..

凌晨一點 溜躂街道上
冷清 迷惘

街燈將影子狠狠拖在地上
拉得好長 好長

獨自回到那間亂糟糟的小房
把你的照片 握在手上
你是否在遙遠 很遙遠的地方彷徨

我失去主張
想到你涓涓的淚兩行
恨不能立即見到你 給你我的肩膀

你說要化為一片蔚藍藍的海洋
來縱容我瘋狂
任由我翱翔 興風起浪

恨自己的胸膛還不夠堅強
承擔不了你所有的悲傷

想你的情緒我越理越亂
失去方向的風帆 無法靠岸

i need...

在幻變的生命裡,歲月。原是最大的小偷!

recently due to Trevor's recommendation we went to watch 《岁月神偷》.
personnally feel that I like this storying far better compared to 《心魔》that I've watched recently.

when the credits start rolling and the gal who sat beside me
the eyes are red
but mine? mine are wet.

I like the movie cos of all the small little bits and pieces which seems like a small little hook which hook up some of the fond memory of your past.


电影里哥哥得了血癌,在医院里,每天不开心,浑不吝的小弟也懂事起来,想尽办法想要哥哥开心:“是不是住在这里不开心呀?我让老妈把你接回家啊。”“那,我给你一个夜光杯啊”“那,给你个红白蓝旗啊”“那,给你个孙悟空啊”…眼看着自己吧心爱的东西都给了哥哥,他还是不开心,无奈的问着:“我已经偷了所有的东西给你了,你到底想要什么啊?”弟弟不懂哥哥的心思,但他只想哥哥开心,如此而已..

哥哥还是走了,弟弟边跑边哭,哭的撕心裂肺..我的心也让他哭碎了…他记得奶奶说过,人总是要到苦海的另一边去,如果想要见那一边的人,就把自己所有心爱的东西都扔进苦海,把苦海填平,那边的人就可以过来了。于是,他来到海边,也许哥哥走了,对他而言,哪里都是无边的苦海。一件一件地拿出包里的心爱之物,一件一件地用力丢进苦海…却始终不能把苦海填平,也始终不见哥哥回来…原来,苦海是没有边的,也是永远无法填平的..去到苦海另一边的人,也是永远都回不来的…

it reminds me of my grandpa
my dream of him
the swimming dream
the dream that he is still here
dream that he is still around keep on swimming
maybe he is at the other side of the sea
and until the day i get to swim over the sea
i would not be able to see him again

i told my friend
i like this movie cos its not a movie that you spend your money
to enjoy the air con in the cinema...
if it's funny you laugh for the two hours
if it's scary you are scared for two hours
it's a movie that would hook you up after the movie for a while..
was talking with somebody about S
somebody ask when S appear
i told somebody that S appear right after peak when ever is free

somebody say..
let it go
it's easy to say than done
not so easy when you really need to take out the needle

will see how things go on...
did not blog much this few weeks..
maybe just feel i'm lack of motivation to blog

emotion?
not stable?
i have no idea

preasure
hoping everything will be ok soon T-T
seems like it's difficult

hopefully april will end soon
very very soon

炫耀

看见朋友在FB上炫耀
生日收到的名贵包包
心里有点五味杂成

是嫉妒吗?
是看不过眼吗?

幸福不是拿来晒的
幸福晒久了会被蒸发和挥霍掉的!

朋友不要再晒啦! 马来西亚已经很热啦!
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