tOm@kO's life ~*_*~

Sometimes it's seem so difficult to communicate your feelings toward our parents. They seems to be object and against a lot of things we are doing. Telling us this is wrong and what they think is right. They would always want you to follow the method or ways of doing things which they think is right.

Therefore, there might be a communication gap or some of us might even see it as a generation gap among our parents. They would not do things the way you want to and they might not allow you to do things the way you wnat to. But have you ever have the thinking that your parents are also once a youngster like we do today in their past? They have also experienced the teenage stage? We always complaint about our parents involving too much in our daily life... But do you ever think of what is the intention of them doing that? Is it they are doing it because they are your parents? or they don't want you to take the wrong choice in your life, which your parents might have done in their past.

It is very obvious that our parents always wants the best out of us. They might want us to complete their teenage dream which we might not be able to acomplished. Sometimes we hate our parents for kept forcing us to do the things which we dislike or not interested to do so. For example, you might be interested to become and grafic designer and your parents would like you to study business in order to be able to handle the family business in the future. What is their intention in asking you to become businessman rather than a grafic designer? Is it they want you to help them to fulfill thier unaccomplished dreams? or they want you to choose the best path so that you would not regret for what you choose.

But, on the other hand have you ever told them what do you think about your future or you just follow what they want you to do. At the end you found out that what they want you to be is not what you would like to be and you end yourself up in a very messarable life? what do you think about that?would you be willing and daring to tell them what you want or you would secretely choose what you like and then telling them that you are taking the subject they wish you to take but in fact it is not? Do you respect their opinion? Do you think you should tell and discuss with them your decision before you make any major changes in your life?

Sometimes things that you think they are very hard to acheive or very hard to communicate to others might infact to be quiet easy and not even as difficult as it would seems to be...
It is all up to you... What do you want in your life? What do you really really want deeply from your heart? It is your mind that controls it all... If you think you can do the things which you would like to create, it is all up to you.

If it is to be, it is up to me.