叻唔切

Something  which  I think  is  very  relevant  nowadays
If  you  are  not  mature  enough  to  handle  things  it is ok  but  please do  not  be as what  was said in the title of this  post.
“一、每个机构都有自己的游戏规则,你第一件事就是把它弄清楚。二、明白规则之后就是找线头……很多人未到第二步已经消失,因为三个字:叻唔切”

Service

Knowing  that Malaysian  last  minute  habbit  the  bank  only have  one  staff  on  duty  for the  fixed  deposit  promotion T_T
Waiting  time  now  is more  than  10 minutes

Consent and statutory rape

Had a discussion with a friend on the issue of the recent case decision of the case of rape of minor and decision was consensual sex with a minor is a OK thing to do?

my friend has been quite confused with the case law decision.

However, I guess this does not have anything to do with the long expected GE soon. We are looking forward for the GE anyway.

Be it the result is +ve for the BN or -ve for BN it doesn't matter.

But i think we need to have awareness whether what is the actual situation.
and also understand what is Statutory rape, Maybe the news is just too big for us to catch and the situation is being discussed among people.But it is just a topic to discuss over lunch / dinner or rather a point that we need to ponder what is happening.

What is the rational behind, why the judgement has been decided as such.

freedom and safety

My friend and I was discussing about her parents letting her to go out during night time with friends for "yam cha" session.

Sometimes I feel that maybe yes we already grow up, but the worries from our parents does not go away that easily. I think is not that they do not trust us enough to give us freedom. It's just that the safety in Malaysia is so bad that it alarmed the concerned of parents, even though their kids is old enough to have their own KEY.

I guess nobody would want themselves to turn up to be one of the news in the papers one day. As such I guess we need to sacrifice a bit by not going out for "yam cha" session during night time.

However, on the other hand, it still voice down to the negotiation skills that whether we are able to convince our parents to allow us to go out at night. My hubby gave me a very good point / action plan that what should be done that I did not do well previously.


  1. Tell them where you exactly going and what is the expected time that you are coming back. Try not to be too late if your parents is waiting at the living hall for you to be back
  2. Let them know the phone number of friends that are "yam cha"-ing with you and try your best to bring them to your house so that your parents would know who are those people that you are going out with.
  3. Let your parents get used to you going out late by going according to their conditions.
I guess this would more or less helped to give an idea on how to handle your parents?
But most importantly, freedom does not come when you are not breathing. I would think safety always come first. Our parents does not really want to restrict us but always they have the worries on what we are doing no matter how old we are.

Think of your parents before you decide to do something for yourself...

LOVE and PEACE :)

Time spent with value

Today spent some time at the gardens Maxis center cos my internet speed was down due to some c2pid update requirement by them.
And it has been almost one month the matter prolong... but I`m pleased that my matter has been solved within 10 minutes though I need to wait for the question for about 40 minutes.
Good thing is I do not need to call 123 to wait for call centre to pick up,answering those verification question and the result is my problem not solved.

Salary in advance

One of the motivation to enjoy the our holiday this month is salary is received half a month in advance compared to previous months due to the festive season.

But on the other hand the disadvantage is you might tend to spend excessively with all the extra cashflow in the bank account.

Well for me, i will spend my money on books and cds
yeah here come the book fest in town during the festive season and public holiday as well as school holidays :)

When Secret Recipe goes Beyond Veggie

So happened it was movie night last night and we loved to watched movie Tropicana City Mall. But it's only disadvantage is often we struggle to think what to eat at when we wanted to have a movie there.

but worry no more Secret Recipe came to the rescue when it wanted to go beyond veggie.

food was quite attractive. Will do a review in the next post.
but was glad that there is a good place to settle down for food in TCM :)


Tanya ~ Friends

Tanya's Song - Friends


All the sadness in the air
How did we get to this?
Why did we end this way?
All the things we used to share
You said put them all away
Close my eyes they're still there yeah
Still trying to understand
Trying the best I can
To start over again oh

Chorus:
If who I am brings you not joy but tears babe
I cannot bear to see you fighting with this pain
So I wish you all the best
If we can't be lovers
Maybe we can still be friends

Though we never really knew
Why did our worlds collide
There were no reasons why
When we're meant to say goodbye
You were never really mine
You were just a state of mind
Still trying to understand
Trying the best I can
To start over again oh

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
liked this song very much. No idea why.
but it's suitable for loves who doesn't managed to make it to the next journey?

Moo Moo Cake

If you have been to RT pastry, you need to try this new breed of pastry from them out...
it's call moo moo cake.
with rich and fluffy sponge outside and tasty milky filling inside
it taste like milky filing swissroll version hokaido cake :)

Inspire a generation

The theme of this olympic 2012 @ London is Inspire a generation,
i wonder whether this olympic does it managed to inspire the young generation to start practice and prepared  to be the next national player who is as good as Dato Lee Chong Wei or Pandelela Rinong?

but before reaching the stage to be as good as Dato Lee Chong Wei or Pandelela Rinong
they need to go trough a lot of practice
a lot of pain
a lot of defeat

learn for failure
but I wonder whether instead of being inspired
Maybe they will be defeated by the hardship that they need to go through before become sucessful.

Sad Case

it would be very sad case if you got to knows the news of your parents / kid through a third party / outsider or even facebook.

what is happening now?
the world is changing...

what can we do to restore it back to its original stage?

Criteria that an employer is looking for when hiring

What would be the main criteria for a employee to be shortlisted.
Good greds, good academic results, good co-co activities?

With a lot of people getting good greds nowadays,
i guess the best way that you can out perform others
you should potrait yourself as a person who is willing to stay and fight for the company for a number of years

if you potrait that you might not be possible to stay for long
possibility is you stand a lower chance to get hired.

it's time for BBQ party again... :)

we decided to have a BBQ party at our condo again...

so it's time to get yourself BBQ or BBQ something which sound so fund :P

coming back

yeah... i'm coming back-ing (doesn't sound so right in terms of grammar)

but it is true and will be doing some renovation to the blog bah :P

gambade...
hopefully i can destress and do everything well again.

Fun pictures from 8.8

Trevor, hubby and myself were at 1u on Wed to practice the lifestyle of a cheap Malaysian.
As mentioned in my earlier post,that day have various promotion such as free ice cream, mango drink and etc as well as other buy one free one promotion.
From the interesting photo I took that day I edited some interesting photo with my line camera.
Enjoy people ^_^

...
谢谢vor仔友情意外演出


左右食指快速触动ing 


時間就是金錢,拿時間換雪糕!

和別人爭免費金雪糕,不如去拿免費許留山。^=^

8.8 freebie day

In conjunction with dato LCW win of his second Olympic sprit, BR gave away free ice cream to celebrate his victory.

People line up as early as before 7.30pm. I was discussing with my friend that Malaysian have a habit to be casually late, but not when there's a queue for freebies and many will flock to the place with freebies.

I guessed it was a successful advertising tactics by BR. Applause for them regardless how much cost that they incurred to give away the free ice cream but definitely with all the publicity on facebook, twitter and etc ...definitely won some valuable free advertisement and they had successfully made Malaysian shared the advertisement of the free ice cream all over fb. Yes BR is the ultimate winner. (P/s just curious whether BR gave any free ice cream supply to Dato)

Besides free ice cream, there is also free 许留山 courtesy of 988 radio station show app get reward program. But the crowd is definitely lesser compared to free ice cream crowd. At the same time there is also other buy one free one offer. I.e. Starbucks, McDonalds.

Not forgetting free sample given when you give them contact details to clinique and you get a free sample of their 3 steps cleansing process.

In the situation when salary is low and expensense is high and everyone try to save money... all this freebies would benefit us the most. But just wonder does it worth the opportunity cost to go for all this freebies or discounted item.

Reward

I guess I should treat myself better by buying something to reward myself :-)

So I decided to get myself the Fuji mini 7 :-D

Patiently waiting for it....

Bolat statements of the day

Number 1
Stm asked when are you prepared to get babies?! Better find time when you are off peak...

Number 2
A is a country gal sure she's gonna have at least 5 babies.

So much for bolat statement when makes my numbness of the peak period more and totally got me instead....

恨會讓你的心變臭

如果不斷讓自己的恨在自己的心裡累積,心會被恨埋葬然後慢慢變臭。

Lappy down

Lappy was down for 3 days...
Finally it's back in action :-)
Happy happy

致20年后的你观后感

超喜欢结尾的这一段 让我大飙泪的 人生是由一连串的意外 每天越过眼前的障碍 明天才会到来 这关系着家人的未来 人生是由一连串的意外 但如果只考虑跨越眼前的障碍 就会看不到最终要的东西 我们要怀抱着梦想生存下去 不管遇到什么事情都绝不放弃 不放弃的心才能接近梦想 培育梦想

又下雨了

連續兩天晚上下雨了!心情懶懶的。明天可以不要上班嗎?

2nd day of 2nd half of the month

The month just started more and more stuff lining up. Hope for the best.

今天名句

愛情沒有贏或輸
只有適合和不適合

Sky moody me

Seem like the sky is as Moody as I am... hope it will b better Soon

婚禮的祝福…

此起彼落的yam Seng 聲,最後剩下的是什麼?
結婚的晚宴或許只是讓父母臉上有光的儀式吧?
或許一生只有一次(當然可能有一次以上)就讓自己當個開心的主角。

Back Sóòn

As discussed wit my blog competitor... I will be back soon...

I'm not back yet

Just realised that i've not posted anything for this blog in 2012. Looking forward to post more rather than keeping my FB active. much to be post... but need time to post... looking very much to be back soon TO teechong... be back soon :)
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