tOm@kO's life ~*_*~

following the post that we say we have made a booking on a condo,
we have received all sort of non supporting voices all over the place.

"why u buy such places... this place all the low class people is staying there"

so... my class will jatuh jus bcos someone else who is staying there.

no matter what you say..
my heart is solid now.
i think

just do not want to think too much over my first investment.

在角落休息的魚

有個朋友去京都的時候，偶然進了一家店，
他說因為坐在隔壁桌的人講的話實在太有趣了，
所以就不知不覺聽了起來。

他們談的是養殖小魚的事。
小魚是養在架在海裡的四方形網裡，
小魚會在網裡繞圈圈的游來游去，
養殖的人讓魚充分的環遊，並不斷餵食，讓魚長大。

可是有一天，那位坐在隔壁桌的人，
也就是從事養殖小魚業的老先生一看網裡，
卻發現網的四個角落竟然有偷懶不游的小魚，
這些魚要是不游就不會長大。
所以，他就想了個辦法，
既然四方形網的角落會讓魚躲在那裡偷懶，
乾脆架成圓形的網算了。

他的構想的確很有效果，
小魚果然找不到休息的地方，
只能在圓形的網裡環遊，
可是問題卻發生了，架起圓形網的數個月後，
小魚全都死光了，因為太累而累死了。

結果，他再一次架起四方形的網，
然後往養魚網裡面看，
他這次發現偷懶不游的並非特定的魚群，
而是互相輪流，
原來魚兒們都是適度的休息後再游的。

' 休息是必要的 '

我们很多时候都認為人的存在價值是以做事來證明，
或是被人認可才能證明的人，
或許很難休息，但有時候什麼也不管就休息，
說不定反而會發現什麼也不做的自己，
其實也是很有價值。

休息是為了走更長遠的路。
別給自己太大的壓力，要懂得舒解自己的壓力，
別太累了！

記住下面這句話：
「 人在天堂，錢在銀行 」
辛勤奮鬥一輩子，啥也帶不走...便宜了誰？

how would u enjoy singing when all the people are requesting for songs which you do not know how to sing le?
i wonder what are we waiting for le?


basically the primary gathering wasss.......
still okay la...
but just suggest not to go such expensive places in the future.
:)

finally after chinese new year..
i marked another journey in my life..
and me and my bf we have decided to get ourselves a place..
b4 we plan for our wedding..
(but this will be a few years down the road)

i'm aiming for a good condo and actually i was touched when my bf say okay to buy a condo nearby my existing house.
because with the same price, we would have bought a landed property with same amount of money just that it would be even further from my current house and would need to think of it's convenience. maybe in shah alam or even rawang.

travelling is quite time consuming..
like what i say, i still like the place i'm currently staying.
i'm just wondering why my bf decided to let go the place he like with a cheaper /more affordable price. in taman melati.
and choose to get a house in jalan ipoh.

actually the condo is currently under soft launch..
but almost half the condo are being taken up before it's official launch.
it's weird...
cos it's quite pricey..

there would be a lot of suggestion or voice when you decide to get a house.
it seems like i'm deciding to settle down with him.
and wish that we would have a long long way to go further.

actually looking forward to a place to stay which is nearby where i used to stay.
and the place is actually near my primary school
and near by the KTM station.
even most of the people are saying KTM services is not good.
but for me it's better than nothing.

looking forward for a better lifestyle when i decided to get married.
and i do think there would not always be an opportunity.
i think we should grab it when we can.
and not to regret when the opportunity is gone.

澄豪、静雯、锦辉、緻庄、建文、迪庆、建南

toasting for a better rat year!!!!

i'm considering of getting myself an insurance policy...
dunno why i keep on rejecting myself from getting involved with insurance agent.

there is lots of conflicts within myself.

which insurance company to choose...
who to buy insurance with...
shouldn't i buy insurance with my primary friend
college friend?

why i choose someone who is a stranger to me?

somemore listen to my bf...
will make me change my mind?
maybe cos of the willingness to treat someone good...
willingness to listen..
willingness to care...

i ask my boss how many insurance have you bought?
what has resulted you to buy the insurance?

she say
'they say this is good, then i buy'
'people ask me to buy'

herm...
i wonder...
to me i do not see what's the importance of buying insurance for the time being...
other than claiming for income tax deduction.

chinese new year...
must wear RED RED
like what uncle freddie say...
红红不会害人
happy chinese new year and great chinese new year

it's amazing that after so many years you still get back to meet your primary friends after so many years.
frankly speaking i really treasure the friendship with them a lot.
even we only got the chance to meet them maybe once a year.

looking forward for the gathering..
and looking foraward when we manage to gether 50 people in the class :)

have not been blogging for long long time..
it's not because i do not have the time.
it's just because i'm lazy.

but if i continue to be lazy.. how am i going to achive at least 100 blog per annum?
weird...
last time when i'm studing...
i can blog almost everything.
maybe that time is really stressful
but i know how to release my stress through blogging...

but now i'm stress..
dunno who to talk wit
and just do not wanna blog it out.
and all the rubbish and toxic are inside me..
looking forward for someone i can share it with him/her...

one table full of food to pray before reunion dinner :)


Fish

chicken and specially fried pork


Fried meat ball


mixed vegetable,fried prawn and marmite chicken


ah ma's famous dish... "hai sim"


noddle for every1 :)

Aesthetic (Music:澤野弘之 Vocal:関山藍果)
作詞：今井麻紀子　作曲：澤野弘之 Vocal：関山藍果

Longing for you day and in dream
I'm hoping you are here and leading my way
You steers my road anytime I need
If you walk away, I will follow you
Trying my life
With your sacred gifts you gave to me
I won’t vain and succeed it as your precious soul
Holding your hand
And I'm walking through the all of the world
Carrying your wish like the Venus in the dim sky

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i've been watching this japanese drama this week
the name of this drama is called 医龍 "team medical dragon" or "iryu"

very short and interesting drama.
like it very much and the theme song are very very nice too :)

yesterday a manager ask me why seldom heard my laughter recently is it i'm not happy...
haha...
erm.. i look depressed recently.
now. i think i'm just understress..
a lot of things need to be done.
and i think that i'm not really careful enough lo.

jus feel not happy with my work.
just feel not living up to expectation.
just feel i need a long break.
staying at home doing nothing.

just feel i'm breaking down.

just bought gary's new album super sunshine.
it's nice super sunshine.

'you are my sunshine,
my only sunshine
因为有了你的爱，
从此不平凡‘

i always feel that his album need to listen for long long time
the longer u listen to it.
you will definately fall in love wit every one of it.

i tought his new album got canto song.
but there isn't any
his quite good in singing canto song.
but there is two of the song which are from the canto song which he sang earlier last year.

listening to his song..
and my new year is fill with his song..

haha
this month has over spend d...
out of control.

那天晚上又梦见你了。
我们和好了。
好开心
虽然它只是一场梦。

常听别人说，梦往往和现实是相反的。
那么你会就不要我这个朋友了吗？
内心总是矛盾的。

好想见你，
可是感觉上我们彼此就是大家不愿触碰的伤痕
只能遥远相望
却一点也不想去触碰的那一块

好想见你
一直在原地等你
是我赶不上你的改变
是我赶不上你的脚步
是我累了

希望可以回到过去
曾经的美好

have been thinking whether it's good to spend all our time together?
whether we should spend more time together or we should left each other alone.
and have more time for ourselves :)

sometimes i wonder whether love is all about two person only or it includes a lot of other poeple?
sometimes i feel it's not as simple as two people getting together.
when you wanna get together for live it involve a lot of people.
i'm trying to get used to it.

it's the begining of the year,
it's time to think of what i want to do this year.
and what's my target.

let me see what's in my plan this year.
1) i should be going to taiwan end of September
2) to speed up my work and work faster
3) to start driving ... (haha... this is target for every year, but still fail every year :P)
4) to learn something new this year

hehe.. hopefully my life will be meaningful this year.
hopefull.. everything is good this year :)

牙痛了好几个晚上，昨天晚上还痛得不能入眠。
感觉上对自己很内疚。
因为没有好好照顾自己的牙齿。

所以今天就下定决心要把我的智慧齿拔掉。
以为拔智慧齿钱包会和牙齿一样的痛。
因为常常听别人所自己拔智慧齿的故事，总是离不开痛和很贵。

我去看的这个牙医已经替我看了很多年了。
感觉上她是亲切而且收费是蛮合理的。

进去的时候就告诉她我左边的智慧齿坏了。
然后她就仔细地替我检查了一下，
就告诉我，你的智慧齿真的蛀了，
接着她就问我,你要拔牙吗？
我也立刻点头答应了。

医生用一种很奇怪的语气说你要拔牙吗？
我就告诉她牙痛让我彻夜难眠。
所以干脆把她拔掉算了。
在我同意了以后。
她就在智慧齿的附近，应该是进行消毒的动作。
然后给我打了一针，麻醉针。
然后她就叫我出去。
relax一下。
放松心情。

但因为要拔牙还是难免会有紧张的心情。
就会有一种忐忑不安的心情。
但医生只花了三两下的功夫就把我的智慧齿拔出来了。

感觉上有些解脱的感觉
痛。
但这应该就是短暂的痛吧！
希望牙齿不要继续痛下去了！

在新加坡的铁路等候火车的时候看见这十个字。
在新的一年与大家共勉之！
translate in to english is value life, act responsibily.
just want to share this thing i saw at Singapore MRT station.
i think it's not just you need it when you are at the MRT station.
you need it when you do whatever in you daily life.

my friend have some bad luck today..
bcos when she went to buy the monthly pass at the LRT station,
she accidentally gave the cashier 3 RM 50 instead of 2 RM 50.
and she did not notice it until she walk away from the counter..
and then she lost RM 50 at the end of the month where she just got her salary.
poor poor her...

but i do think it's a good dead that you do not cheat on other people's money.
not trying to be 贪小便宜all the time.