tOm@kO's life ~*_*~

well i dun reli play tweeter anymore
and i dun reli follow WTF u tweet
well cos it's nothing much of my biz
if you wanna spend time wondering whether i follow ur tweet
my answer is definate
sorry i don't tweet

i guess people must be busy lately
has been quite for sometime (should be peak period lo)

getting off peak now
so can wonder around

and write dunno what comment
which i also do not want to reply

i do believe peace and
"GOD BLESS YOU" (just like little Timmy said in A Christmas Carol)

Normally when you pay the toll on the HIGHWAY so you can reach your destination faster...
but in Malaysia.... you pay the toll to join the Jam....
especially it rained in the evening before the nite...

"This is it... This is 1Malaysia!"

jaming all the way to the Gardens for movie of 2012
looking forward for nice nice effect movie ;)

一天晚上在餐馆中看到“点滴积累，成就人生” 的一篇文章
就把它拍起来，然后回家上网也找到其中的文章
希望与大家共勉之

生活中充满了细节，那些看起来非常偶然的细节会帮助或伤害你我们，所以认清那些影响我们成败的细节十分重要，以下列出了生活中容易被我们忽视却十分重要的57个细节，相信每个人在阅读之后，会高度关注生活中的细节，让每一个细节为自己服务。

（1）做错事要马上道歉
（2）不要负面回应批评
（3）不要向朋友借钱
（4）不要轻易承诺
（5）分清“该问的”与“不该问的”

（6）人多的场合少说话
（7）说话时尽量用“我们”
（8）凡事多考虑三分钟
（9）别主忘随时为自己鼓掌
（10）要学会说善意的谎言

（11）过去的事不要全让人知道
（12）约会时要提前几分钟到达
（13）对事无情，对人要有情
（14）搜集信息还要消化信息
（15）多自我批评，少自我表扬

（16）竞争中要学会欣赏对手
（17）坚持在背后说别人的好话
（18）每天向你周围的人问声“早上好”
（19）连续加班后，更要精神饱满
（20）不是你的功劳，千万不要占有它

（21）老板错了的时候，你要懂得应对
（22）随便打断别人的谈话是一种陋习
（23）不要比你的老板穿得好看
（24）遇到老板，主动迎上去谈几句
（25）给老板的报告里预备一份概要

（26）不要占用公司的一张纸或一支笔
（27）在工作中使用“日常备主忘录”
（28）不要在朋友面前炫耀自己
（29）保持办公桌的整洁、有序
（30）只要还能坚持上班就不要请假

（31）做事前，先想象一个好的结果
（32）接到额外的工作时，不要抱怨
（33）主动汇报自己的本作情况
（34）不要为自己的错误做任何辩解
（35）自以为最了解自己，其实不然

（36）和上司谈话时，关掉你的手机
（37）和客户通电话时，不在先挂掉电话
（38）找拒绝时，要尽可能模糊一点
（39）不要“逼”客人看你的家庭相册
（40）出现在公共场合要保持整洁

（41）不要把谈论别人的缺点当做乐趣
（42）不相因“应酬”伤害自己，就要注意分寸
（43）尊重传达的师傅和打扫卫生的阿姨
（44）和别人一起坐出租车，抢先坐在司机旁
（45）气质是关键，如果时尚不好，宁愿淳朴

（46）不要把别人对你的好视为理所当然，要知道感恩
（47）向上同请教前，事先想好问题的解决方法
（48）对自己不知道的事情，坦率地说“不知道”
（49）有人在你面前说别人坏话时，你不要插嘴
（50）与人握手时，尽量多握一会儿，“真诚”比什么都宝贵

（51）昨晚多几分钟的准备，今天少几个小时的麻烦
（52）上班时与下班时要想办法让老板知道你做了些什么
（53）同事生病时，去探望他，要很自然地坐在病床上，回家之后再认真洗手
（54）如果长得不好，就让自己有才气；如果才气也没有，那就总是微笑
（55）自己开车时不要特地停下来和骑自行车的同事打招呼，人家会以为你在炫耀

（56）有时，要明知故问：你的钻戒贵吧？有时，即使想问也不能问，比如：你长大了？
（57）不要期望所有人都会喜欢你，那是不可能的；让大多数人喜欢，就意味着你的成功

“大事”能检验一个人的智慧、才能和品格，“小事”也能。台果每一件小事都做得漂亮、舒心，那你也能得到极大的快乐和对自我的肯定。积累一件双一件小事，直到有一天，你会惊讶地发现，自己是一个多么了不起的人。

Organic Recipe
Address: B3-07-09, Casa Utama, Lorong Lebuh Bandar Utama, PJU 6A, 47400 PJ
Tel: 03 - 7729 0236

a very nice and cosy restaurant inside a condominium
always heard of it but never tried it before since i heard about it
and you would never believe yourself that @ such a place there is such a organic restaurant with such a crowd.

my recommendation to come back again once every two months :)
cos the food are quite pricy

since it rains too many times tis month...
my modem failed me...
so it cause me having a reason to buy a new modem

so.. i prefer to stick back to the modem brand which i used for many years
which rarely fails me and really far far much better than X-Link
it come with 3 years on site warranty and one to one Xchange if the modem is strike by lightning

but when i took the modem home...
i got a problem in configuring it cos i never configure a new modem b4...
where the last time it was configured was like N years ago.

well at last i managed to successfully configure my new modem
and stay tune for more post and food blog from me
which will be coming up soon ;)

There is nice japanese vegetarian in town??

Vegetarian steamboat also can be very yummy???

Super nice vegetarian 21 b'day party!!!

much much more coming up soon....
with the condition that my connection is on within next week.
else have to wait until which day...

have not been updating much this month as i'm sort of busy
and when i'm better off now... i don't know whether is streamyx fail me or my modem fail me...

'xian diao' kanasai la...

well have to solve the problem anyway
therefore need to find a way
a solution - either buy a new modem
or - call and shout at the streamyx people??
damn them...

let me see how.

大团结方案的产生是基于一个重要的认知，那就是不能让马华被纠缠不休的领导争议所拖垮。个人以及过去的分歧必须搁置一旁，好让马华继续前进，再度赢回民心。

大团结方案包含三个重要组成部分，分别是：团结全党、疗伤止痛与改造马华重塑品牌。推介这个方案的同时，必须坚决捍卫党章，对党章所赋予的权力，没有任何一方可以质疑或是阳奉阴违。

团结全党

拿督斯里翁诗杰与拿督斯里蔡细历如今摒弃前嫌再度合作。他们基于党的团结分别接触了党内各造，以期达成一个更具包容性的领导架构。为了持久维系同志的情，马华所有党员，从中央委员会以降，务必严格遵守马华公会行为守则。不管是发表任何声明或是采取任何行动，党领袖都必须紧记党的利益高于一切。
我们将会集中全力遴选优秀的人才，提供他们一个适合的平台，为党及社群服务。
我们也将会举办更多的活动，以拉近党员与各阶层的距离，促进彼此的情谊。

疗伤止痛

受到去年大选空前冲击，尚未完全恢复过来的马华，正饱受内争不断的伤害。民众会以为马华已经一蹶不振，在马华正要全力冲刺的时候，这种错误的想法，对我们在下届大选要赢回支持是很不利的。
马华的高层领袖将会进行一场脑力激荡，研究及鉴别党内组织差异性以及共通点。这将使党在迈步前进时，对如何强化力量、纠正弱点，有更好的认知。 为了达成目标，脑力激荡聚会将会作出短期、中期以及长期规划。
我们将成立一个委员会以促进党内各方，特别是母体以及臂膀组织间的互信互谅。这个举措的目的是要确保党内各方维系顺畅圆融的关系。

改造马华重塑品牌

中央委员会必须尽快鉴定哪些是党与华社所必须关注的关键领域。这意味着马华不单是感受到人民的心声，而且言行相随。我们没有理由让人民的期望落空。
马华必须拟定一个坚实的品牌重朔运动，以纠正民众误会以为马华疏离了他们。这个举措，有助印证马华服务人民一向秉持不屈不饶与坚毅的态度，同时引导民众建立正确观念、消弭不必要的误解。
马华公会也必须在支会、区会以及州联委会设定自己的关键表现指标（ＫＰＩ）。这将有助于确保所有各级党务人员，不管在何时何地皆能心无旁骛的为国家、为人民及党奉献服务。

when people are calling for unity..
there are always people who are against it
when they are against it
you know who is the 老鼠屎

my friend really won the pimpmybroadband contest
and i guess he really deserve to win

well with his win
a lot of people calling for bak kut teh treat from him on FB
why?
cos they contributed to the vote?
well i guess this is our mentality
little effort done big reward wanted

as for me...
i requested for shark fin soup
of course it's vegetarian...

but now i wonder..
i'm also part of people who are with little effort done and big reward wanted mentality??
cos i did nothing much but vote a little
and inform him to take part in the contest.

a best wishes advertisement from local college has been modified from
Good Luck to Good FUCK

should say we are creative?
or...

this is Malaysia ;)

i was wondering whether should i change to those phone which are social network friendly or still maintain the old phone

my main concern with what type of phone should i change to is cost
i guess i would not prefer to increase my spending with the change of phone
cos i'm not adicted to social network like FB

but i'm a bit kean on blogging
but i have limited time to blog
and sometimes you have so much idea to blog.
but when you finished one hard days work and when you reach home
you have decided to keep your brain clear

no more work
no more brain draining

so i guess to switch to blackberry or iphone is just pure talking
i would prefer phone with photo taking capability where i can capture the things whenever i like and whatever i like
and blog it after it.
i even can blog it from my phone.
but it will cost me plenty if i decided to blog through my phone.

so conclusion i guess.
i would not change to iphone or blackberry
but i need to change a phone, so i can inheritate my old phone to my cousin sister? :P

there are somebody who said that Malaysia have the world class facility
but the people have 3rd world mentality.

is it true?
is it a fact?
or just other people's wrong perception?

somehow i feel it's true to a certain extend
but it's sad.
how are we moving towards the high income country when the people still have 3rd world mentality??

it has been raining almost whole day this morning.
seems like the rain is not going to end already.
some how some why it seems my mood a bit down
and feel a bit challenged today.

an interesting clip from namewee
but it still did not explain where TNB came from.
if you wanna know. you have to go namewee's clip to find out.
i think technology is so good that you can express yourself with minimal cost.

sometimes always see people drive dangerously.
so... maybe that this is a reason why until now i still have not learn how to drive??

Well This is Malaysia
We are Malaysian.

and the worst part...
foreigner come here and learn all the bad habbit of Malaysia
and tell you "NEVER MIND... THIS IS MALAYSIA LO!!! MALAYSIA BOLEH!!!"

well Q-ing sometimes Malaysian do not have this habbit
and i really hate Q-ing in the ladies.
cos i would show myself as a very "SELFISH" person who stand in the middle of everybody from going to another door to Q
but if ur urgent... just let people know maybe they would let you to go first?

well this is Malaysia
and We are Malaysian...
sad...

是文化還是笑話？

Kiasu, Kiasi??
but we have to accept it...
This is Malaysia
and the worst reality is we are Malaysian.

比喻某处所花费者，仍从某处取回。 明 唐顺之 《公移·牌》：“佃户饥饿，责在本田主身上。稍稍借贷度日，有收之年送还田主。谚所谓‘羊毛出在羊身上’。” 清 李渔 《比目鱼·征利》：“［净］：‘好汉从来不喫亏，借花献佛讨便宜。’［小生］：‘羊毛出在羊身上。’” 邹韬奋 《萍踪忆语》九：“俗话说‘羊毛出在羊身上’。资本主义对于失业的救济总是把负担加在一般大众的身上，他们自己还是不拔一毛的。”

我们还是可怜的羔羊。在现有的制度下我们只是任人宰割的肥羔羊。而被宰割后受益的可能就是拥有拐杖的不残而废的族群。